Monday 20 February 2006

Time

I think I am procrastinating.

I have an assignment that I should be writing. I also should be organising an event at church which is in two days. At the very least I should be weeding the garden, which is not looking too neat at the moment....

Does anyone else feel like they have many more important things that they should be doing right now? I spend a lot of time complaining that I don't have enough time.

Why is that?

Well, I need to get all these important things done, so I can spend time doing the other things, like hanging out with my wife, praying, doodling, blogging, listening to music, blogging.

What? These are not important things?

Maybe I am doing the important things already? I spend a lot of time hanging out with my wife, doodling, blogging, listening to music, chilling with my friends.... Why do I think of these things as not as important? Because they are not urgent?

I automatically classify anything to do with my work as "important", and everything else as "less important".

But I have begun to think that these "less important" things are just as urgent as the other "important" ones. Maybe more important....

People and relationships are more important than anything else. Spending time with my wife is one of the most crucial things I can ever do. Doodling on a pad inspires creativity - one of God's greatest gifts to us. Music lets us in on the beauty and wonder of life, and says things that can't be said with mere words. Work is important to give our life purpose - we were made to work. But it is less important than people.

It is easy to fill my day with activities, but the greatest tool for building relationship is time - free time. I want to be a person who always has time for people.

Especially for my family.

1 comment:

  1. Anonymous7:09 pm

    true.
    I guess its making the difference between 'wasting time' and 'quality time'. If the time spent doing whatever is for a purpose I would say it is quality time. eg. Going for a coffee with a buddy to catch up / touch base or on your own to de-stress is time well spent , 'quality time'. giong for a coffee simply because you have an assignment to write or because you have a bus to catch in 15 minutes and you have the time 'spare' could be wasting it.
    And hey blogging is just quality time with the internet and your own brain isnt it?

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